Have you ever known someone who has the answer to
everything—never apologizes for their mistakes—never accepts
accountability—never admits fault—stops growing?
It’s a fact that now matter how old you are, you
can still grow. The difference between
growth in age and growth in character is that the latter is a choice. Have you ever heard the phrase, oh that’s
just how they are? I don’t accept that—because, people shouldn’t just be
tolerated just because they are set in their ways. People need to be open to constructive
criticism. They need to be aware of
their strengths and weaknesses—knowledgeable about their flaws. We all have them! People should be open for
improvement—always.
There needs to be a universal understanding that
everyone does not think or act like you do.
Therefore, you have to be open to change—open for growth. When you become so perfected in your
character that there is no room for growth, you become obsolete to the
masses. That’s right, obsolete! Let me explain what I mean. I remember one time—and I can’t recall who
said it but—someone criticized me for not saying thank you enough. I was offended—even defended myself, saying
that I do say it when it needs to be said.
Well, once I took the time to reflect, I realized that I didn’t say
it. I simply went through my days
expecting people to do things for me without expressing any appreciation. Because of that criticism, I now make a
conscious effort to thank people for EVERYTHING. And when I do so, the other person feels
appreciated. They may, in turn,
appreciate someone else. It’s a domino
effect and it’s a way you can benefit others—and, of course, benefit yourself.
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